Is anyone there, does anyone care?? i need advise?

First of all, you are not going to like me saying this, but you are infatuated not in love. You cannot love someone you have never spoken to and really don't know. Love is a relationship between 2 people . One sided "love" is not love but infatuation. That being said it doesn't make it any easier to get over. Your hormones are attracting you to him and that is hard to fight. The fact that he de friended you should tell you he is not interested in getting to know you better. As a friend, or anything else. Chances are he is straight too. We all have crushes and they are not easy to get over, but you will get over it, Try to go to places where there are some attractive gay men and set your sights on someone more attainable. This will p.